Dating women with baggage
we tend to make life and relationships more complicated than they have to be.
i also think that what others have told me is true: there's nothing "wrong" with me; i'm just going deeper in understanding what makes me tick--what the root of all the "drama" is about.
Lack of self esteem or unwillingness to want to see something about yourself you don't like?
I still do it for a living 40-60 hours a week at work. It means I have sought to turn my 'baggage' into service and to separate my vocation from my quest for intimacy.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... I know of a couple who are exactly as you describe.
it's where i'm at right now.tired of dating jerks, tired of running, and ready to stand still.meeting a quality man who treats me better than anyone i've met before makes a huge difference; being open and able to talk about what's going on and knowing that i have freedom to confess that urge to run; knowing that he is aware of my habitual marathon get-aways and is willing to work it through...
somehow, it takes a lot of the fear out of the equation. It's called "White Knight Syndrome" which, while being noble, is unrealistic.